How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson

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  • Published on:  Monday, January 22, 2018
  • Tyrion Video on Frames: JP video on earning respect: Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate To Shut Down Conversational BulliesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate?See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments! We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in. So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though7:47 And visual imagery can also help8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with youConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
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  • s0nnyburnett

     1 years ago

    Bad idea to play mind games with a psychology professor.

  • Danny F

     6 hours ago

    Not just any psychology professor, its J fkn P.

  • MrHalo's Gaming

     14 hours ago

    you obviously are delusional you make a claim with no real evidence to what end is Peterson conning us where is his lies point them out debunk the code for us, the oh wise prophet your honestly a paranoid conspiracy kook, Peterson in all these arguments is simply defending himself from accusations and ideological bigotry and yet you cant seem to actually come up with any reason to why he is lying.....

  • Jon Snow

     4 months ago

    "Sure is nice out today.""So you're denying climate change?"

  • adib ahnaf


    Don’t worry winter is coming

  • Francis Glasco


    I never said anything about climate change.

  • Leif Scott

     3 months ago

    Jordan Peterson's point about her being willing to offend him was beautiful.

  • Davide P

     4 days ago

    I was almost going to reply seriously to the initial comment, but then I read all the other replies and that already makes self-evident why using this video of J Paterson, although maybe technically valid, wasn't probably a good idea considering the type of audience he attracts.

  • Daily Stoic

     2 months ago

    “The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.” – Marcus Aurelius

  • Nicholas Garcia

     4 days ago

    DIAZ52 ah, a fellow intellectual.

  • Andres Canales

     27 days ago


  • Chamieiniibet

     2 months ago

    I think that "gotcha" was intended to be more like ice-breaking, not humiliating. Kinda "stop attacking, let's laugh this off".

  • jdoorenb


    That's what I was going to say. You could argue that the "gotcha" was him doing what he's talked about in other videos, he was relieving the tension. If she had sat there much longer without saying anything, might it just have made her more mad?

  • the champ

     1 years ago

    This lady is now a online joke.

  • Lancer1131

     10 hours ago

    the champ so, this is the “so you’re saying” woman? Pathetic is strong with this one.

  • madddragon x

     2 days ago

    Shite just isn't worth a comment , is it?

  • molto curioso

     4 months ago

    “I like ketchup and don’t like mayonnaise”“So are you saying fast food restaurants should quit using mayonnaise?”

  • TitanFallout

     3 days ago

    @Pip Pipster I fully support this statement.

  • sooa loves jisung

     9 days ago


  • Holo

     3 months ago

    Peterson: **exists**Interviewer: So you're saying that I shouldn't exist?Well no but actually yes

  • Trent Mcgready

     13 days ago

    Jordan Peterson is a George Soros puppet.JP worked under Under George Soros's right hand man in the U.N.

  • birdlover5

     1 months ago

    @Fly Crack Agreed.

  • Dutch van der Linde

     1 months ago

    Peterson: *takes a bite out of a sandwich*Newman: “So you’re saying Hitler should be resurrected?”

  • David Atkinson

     2 hours ago

    @Oscar Rasmussen This comment deserves an award

  • Harry Ertai


    a perfect 666 likes :0

  • Kwan Hoong Chan

     2 months ago

    If Jordan starts addressing her deeper emotional concerns, then he will be charging her by the hour..

  • Honk Hogan

     1 months ago

    Lmfao *sips coffee, sees comment, chokes on coffee, spends the next few minutes coughing like an old man and giggling like a little girl * thank you chan my man...👍😃